JINX (Verb) : bring bad luck to; cast an evil spell on.
Have you ever felt like your dreams are always just out of reach? Like no matter how much you want something, it’s as if an invisible wall keeps blocking you? If yes, then you’re not alone. Often, we unknowingly sabotage our own desires with little habits that hold us back. In this article, we go through five common things that could be jinxing your desires and keeping you further away from living your dream. Grab a cup of tea, and let’s go…
1. Telling People Your Plans
Let’s be real – we’ve all been there. You’ve just come up with a brilliant idea or create a plan to achieve a goal, and the first thing you want to do is share it with everyone. It’s thrilling to see their reactions and feel their initial excitement. But here’s the thing: when you share your plans too soon, you dilute the energy you need to bring them to life. Also evil eye is real, you do not know who has bad intentions towards you or your progress in life.
Think of your dreams as a delicate seedling. It needs the right conditions, time, and nurturing to grow. When you talk about it prematurely, you expose it to opinions, doubts, judgments and evil eye that can mess with your confidence and bring confusion. Plus, the validation you get from sharing often tricks your brain into thinking you’ve already achieved something. So, next time you’re tempted to shout your plans from the rooftops, take a breath and keep them close to your chest. Let your results do the talking.
2. Constant Daydreaming
Dreaming big is amazing; it’s where all great things start. But here’s the catch: when all you do is daydream, you’re staying in fantasy land without moving a step closer to reality. There were moments i my life i was addicted to day dreaming, it became an obsession. I was so depressed and hated my reality. I wanted my reality to look like the one I dream
Constant daydreaming without action can actually make you feel more frustrated because you’re aware of what’s possible but not doing anything about it. No matter how much you visualize that vacation, car or new apartment with large glass windows in the city, it would not come into reality unless you learn to be in the present.
Dreaming isn’t the problem; staying stuck in the dream is. So, by all means, visualize your goals. Feel the emotions, get inspired… and then take the next step to make it happen.
3. Not Taking Action
Speaking of taking steps, let’s address the elephant in the room: inaction. We’ve all been guilty of it. You know what you want, you’ve thought about it endlessly, and yet… nothing happens. Why? Because taking action can be scary. It’s full of uncertainties, challenges, and risks of failure.
But here’s the truth: no matter how small the action, it’s still progress. The universe rewards movement. Even if you’re not sure what the perfect first step is, just do something. Write that email, research that topic, sign up for that course. Each tiny step will build momentum, and before you know it, you’ll be closer to your dream than you ever imagined.
Remember, action is the bridge between where you are and where you want to be. Don’t let fear or procrastination keep you stuck on the wrong side.
4. Premature Celebration: Allowing the Devil to Take Charge of You
Okay, let’s get a bit deep here. Have you ever celebrated a win too early? Maybe you landed a job interview and immediately started acting like you got the job. Or you started a project and felt so confident that you let your guard down before finishing it. Premature celebration is like declaring victory halfway through a marathon. Not only does it slow you down, but it can also open the door to complacency and self-sabotage.
There’s a saying, “Don’t count your chickens before they hatch.” It’s true! Celebrate when you’ve crossed the finish line, not when you’re just getting started. Stay focused, humble, and disciplined until your dream is fully realized. The last thing you want is for overconfidence to let negative energy (or “the devil,” if you will) creep in and derail you.
5. Pride
Ah, pride – the silent dream killer. It’s that little voice that says, “I don’t need help” or “I already know what I’m doing.” While confidence is crucial, pride can blind you to opportunities for growth and collaboration.
No one achieves their dreams alone. Asking for help, learning from others, and staying open to feedback are signs of strength, not weakness. Pride can also make you hold onto mistakes longer than necessary because admitting them feels like a blow to your ego. But here’s the thing: humility is the key to progress. When you let go of pride, you make room for wisdom, guidance, and support.
So, check yourself. Are you holding onto pride at the expense of your dreams? If yes, it’s time to let it go and embrace the beauty of learning and growing.
Final words
Your dreams are worth fighting for, and the last thing you want is to unknowingly sabotage them. By keeping your plans private, balancing dreaming with action, avoiding inaction, celebrating at the right time, and letting go of pride, you can align yourself with your desires and make them a reality.
Remember, the journey to your dreams isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress. So, take a deep breath, assess where you might be holding yourself back, and start making changes today. You’ve got this, and your dreams are closer than you think!
