(PART 1)
A strong way to weather life’s storms with fortitude and inner strength is via stoicism. Even the most determined woman, though, might stumble into several traps that could impede her success. The following are 10 obstacles a stoic lady has to be aware of:
1. External control over emotions
The environment and the situation we find ourselves in have an enormous impact on our lives. Mastering stoicism is mastering the act of stillness, self control and power over one’s emotions. A stoic woman should never allow people or external circumstances control her actions, words or even the way she thinks. A woman has power and a stoic woman is even more powerful because she strives to maintain her inner tranquility regardless of what is happening around her.
2. Indulgence in negative emotions
Stoicism is about being able to recognize negative emotions such as anger, fear, envy, jealousy, hate or other destructive emotions and transforming them. A stoic woman has maximum self-discipline and thinks rationally and this helps to curve and transform negative emotions.
3. complaints and blame
As a stoic, it is a shame if you waste time complaining about things you cannot change or blaming others for your shortcoming or misfortunes. A stoic accepts responsibilities, understands the consequences of each action that is taken and focuses on what he and she can control.
4. Attachment to material possessions
One trait that is inherent in stoics is hard work. A stoic individual has the ability to work hard to achieve everything she wants to but the but holds power in the ability to refrain from becoming overly attached to material wealth, status or possessions. A stoic understands that true happiness comes from within and not material things.
5. Disregard for virtue
Self will is one of stoicisms pillars. A stoic never compromise on principles or ethics. Stay true to virtues, such as wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance, even when it’s challenging. Doing this makes you stand out in the world.
6. Procrastination and Laziness
A stoic understands when it’s time to work, rest, joke around and when it’s time to be serious, focused. Avoid putting off important tasks or indulging in laziness. Embrace discipline and take consistent action towards your goals and responsibilities. Learn to make schedules and stick to them and you would continue to see progress in whatever you do.
7. Seeking approval from others
Self sufficiency is another great pillar. A stoic knows herself, she know when to self reflect or listen and when to not rely on listen to what others say or do. Do not rely on the approval or validation of others to feel good about yourself. Trust in your own judgment and values.
8. Envy and comparison
Everyone has their own path in which they follow and stoicism teaches that you should always find peace in staying in your own lane. Avoid comparing yourself to others and feeling envious of their success. Focus on your own path and progress.
9. Ignoring Self-Reflection
The beauty of being human is that we are never 100% perfect. Even as a stoic or someone that practice stoicism, you will always come short and that is why it is important to never neglect the practice of self-reflection. Regularly assess your thoughts, actions, and emotions to ensure they align with your Stoic principles.
10. Underestimating the Power of Vulnerability
Stoicism isn’t about being cold and unfeeling. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable in safe spaces can deepen your connections and build stronger relationships.
CONCLUSION
By navigating these pitfalls, a stoic woman can cultivate a life of strength, resilience, and genuine happiness.
