Life is unpredictable and so are men. Infact, humans are unpredictable in general so the reason someone might or might not take you seriously might depend on the person, the time of their life and the circumstance they find their selves in. I made this post as a form of direction for setting boundaries and escaping unecessary hearbreaks and confusion.
If you’re looking to build a meaningful relationship and be seen as someone worth committing to, there are certain qualities and habits that naturally stand out. Here are ten simple yet effective ways to make men view you as a long-term partner.
1. Stop Oversharing
Sometimes, less is more. Sharing every detail of your life early on can make it hard for someone to appreciate the layers of who you are. No one needs to know how many times you have sex and if you’ve done abortion in the past. Keep some things private and allow the relationship to unfold naturally. (But if you have an std and you are in a sexual relationship, it is best to inform your partner).
2. Dress Modestly
Your body is a treausre that should be protected. Dressing modestly doesn’t mean you can’t be stylish or attractive it simply means presenting yourself in a way that reflects respect and self-worth. Although men are expected to exhibit ultimate self control, women need to play their part in protecting their bodies. Someone with the intention of a long term serious relationship often appreciate a sense of elegance and restraint in how you carry yourself.
3. Remain in Your Feminine Energy
Your feminine energy is powerful. It’s about being nurturing, kind, and confident in your softness. You don’t have to prove your strength by competing or being overly assertive. Don’t pursue him and over exert yourself, dont try too hard to win him over. It never ends well, trust me. Stay in your feminine energy, show him green signs, love him but maintain your ground and let him come to you.
4. If You’re Religious, Let It Be Known
Your beliefs and values are a significant part of who you are. If faith plays a big role in your life, don’t hide it. Sharing this side of yourself early on helps ensure you’re aligned with someone who respects and shares your principles. It’s about finding someone who values the things that matter most to you.
5. Limit Sexual Conversations
Keeping the focus on emotional and intellectual connection rather than diving into sexual topics too soon sets a tone of respect and seriousness. While chemistry is important, building a deeper foundation creates a lasting bond. It also shows that you value meaningful connection over fleeting attraction.
6. Respect Yourself
Self-respect is non-negotiable. The way you treat yourself teaches others how to treat you. Set boundaries, prioritize your well-being, and never compromise your values to please someone else. Men are drawn to women who have a strong sense of self-worth and aren’t afraid to stand by their principles.
7. You Don’t Have to Say Yes to Everyone
It’s okay to be selective about who you give your time and energy to. Saying yes to everyone might make you seem too available or eager to please. Remember, it’s better to invest in someone who truly values and appreciates you than to spread yourself too thin trying to accommodate everyone.
8. You Don’t Have to Be Seen at Every Party
Being everywhere all the time might give off the impression that you’re not focused on building a meaningful relationship. It’s okay to skip the social scene sometimes and prioritize quality time or personal growth. Men who are looking for a long-term partner value someone who knows when to have fun and when to focus on what truly matters.
9. Practice Emotional Patience
Relationships take time to grow. Be patient with the process and don’t rush into defining things too quickly. Let the connection develop naturally. Men appreciate a partner who’s willing to take the time to build something meaningful rather than pushing for instant results.
10. Communicate Clearly and Kindly
Good communication is the backbone of any successful relationship. Express your feelings and needs honestly but always with kindness. Avoid games or mixed signals. When you’re straightforward and respectful in your communication, it builds trust and sets the stage for a strong, lasting connection.
Final Thoughts
Making a man view you as a long-term partner isn’t about playing games or changing who you are. It’s about embracing your best qualities, staying true to your values, and fostering a connection built on respect and understanding. By following these steps, you’ll naturally attract the right person who sees you as someone they want to build a future with.
Now, you might get a little less attention and men may not want to fully indulge If you take heed to this post. But see it as a positive thing, a woman of value cannot be touched and accessed by just anyone. The moment you see a man that has good intentions for you, you’ll just know the difference. In the mean time, love your self, your career, your craft, have fun and live life. Thanks for reading. Follow our pinterest to join our community.
