Seduction doesn’t always have to be about sex or seducing men. It is a skill that can be used to achieve things by playing into the minds of people in a way that they find you appealing and interesting in many ways. This series is not about beauty or looks, it is about developing an aura that stands out in a world where it’s so easy to be average.
In a previous post, I have carefully explained the eight seduction archetypes which is inspired by Robert Greene’s “Art of seduction”. If you want to read that post click on the link The eight seduction archetypes
The “Seduction Archetypes/personalities” and the “Female Archetypes” are very different phenomena. I have also written a post about everything you need to know about The Seven Female Archetypes, which is a based on mythological figures that represents different aspect of the feminine energy. There will be a whole series on different topics, so follow on pinterest to stay tuned.
Without further delay, let’s get in to the main deal of today. There are eight different seduction archetypes and depending on which one you chose to emulate there are different type of people you might attract. One thing about attraction and allure is that, while attracting good people it is likely that you might also attract the bad ones. There is a responsibility that is required and that is knowing who you attract based on your seduction archetype and that I what I will be highlighting in this article.
For those of you who still haven’t read the post, I like to quickly highlight the eight different seduction archetypes/personalities.
- The Siren
- The Coquette
- The Ideal Lover
- The Dandy
- The Natural
- The Charmer
- The Charismatic
- The Rake.
1. The Siren
The siren embodies traits of mystery, outright seduction and unattainability. She is the woman you can see but never fully have or understand because she creates a sense of longing and fascination. People who are drawn to intense, emotionally charged connections are attracted to the Siren. They seek excitement and are intrigued by the Siren’s enigmatic nature.
Sirens attract high sensation seekers, romantics, individuals with anxious attachment styles, those looking for transformation, and thrill-seekers (mostly extroverts as you can see). While these relationships can be deeply transformative, they can also lead to instability if intensity is pursued at the expense of emotional safety and mutual respect. Being drawn to such isn’t inherently toxic, but self-awareness is crucial to avoid falling into emotionally draining or unhealthy relationship patterns.
2. The Coquette
Playfulness and elusivity are the main attributes of a coquette. She keeps people on their toes, creating a push-pull dynamic that can be both exhilarating and frustrating. They evoke a sense of pursuit and desire. These kinds of people are extremely ambitious and confident while pursuing what they want. She might also attract people who use another form of manipulation technique.
The Coquette will also not attract empaths who prefer directness and straightforwardness in relationships, such as those who dislike ambiguity and emotional games .These types of people will get frustrated and tired of the on and off dynamic the coquette uses to draw in her victims.
3. The Ideal Lover
The ideal lover is a romantic, attentive and deeply focused individual who is deeply aware of the desires and fantasies of others. The ideal Lover makes others feel special and valued, often creating an intense bond based on shared ideals and emotions. They are empathetic and also attract people who possess the same qualities. People looking for a deep, almost dream-like connection and want to be understood and cherished are drawn to the Ideal Lover.
4. The Dandy
Dandies are free spirited and usually do not conform to traditions. Traditional roles are blurred theories in the dandy’s mind. The Dandy challenges expectations and draws people who are looking for something unconventional and intriguing in a relationship. Attraction from people who are waiting (or already are) to explore, rebel or go on adventures are assured in this case. To be clear, Free spirits, bohemians, mavericks or iconoclasts, are people that the Dandy will attract.
5. The Natural
Naturals have innocent, genuine, playful and often possessing a child-like charm. The Natural brings out the protective and nurturing side in others. They create a sense of comfort and joy, often evoking a desire for a carefree connection. Those who are drawn to authenticity, simplicity and a sense of ease in relationships are who they attract. Naturals have mastered using the art of vulnerability to draw people in, attracting inherently assertive, go-getters, and alpha personalities.
6. The Charmer
Charmers like their name implies are extremely sociable, smooth, adaptable and are capable of making others feel at ease. The Charmer has a way of making others feel important and special. They create a warm, inviting atmosphere that draws people in effortlessly. Charmers possess the ability to attract anyone. Everyone! good and bad, extrovert and introvert, calm and loud all find charmers attractive. Charmers create a safe space for
7. The Charismatic
Charismatics shares almost same traits as charmers but charismatics exude an aura of authority. Confidence, inspiration, magnetism and a strong sense of purpose are the qualities that make up the charismatic. The Charismatic can lead and influence others, often creating a sense of awe and admiration. They attract followers and admirers who are looking for guidance and strength. Individuals who are drawn to confidence and power, who seek inspiration and are often captivated by the charisma of the Charismatic. A charmer can also be a charismatic and vice versa.
8. The Rake
Rakes are bold, intense, passionate, and often unapologetically pursuing their desires. The Rake creates a whirlwind of passion and intensity. They evoke deep emotions and a sense of danger, attracting those who crave a sense of adventure. Those who are drawn to intense, thrilling experiences. They are often looking for excitement and a break from routine. In very simple words, spontaneous and restless people will be attracted to a rake. People who have feel trapped and find time to be impulsive might be attracted to this archetype.
Closing Remarks
These archetypes all represent distinct qualities that appeal to different kinds of individuals. You may learn more about the connections you attract and the dynamics that arise in your encounters by being aware of your archetype.
