Who is a narcissist?
Have you ever been associated with an extremely entitled, self absorbed, manipulative individual who is draining but has a way of convincing everyone that they are always correct and are the foundation of every good thing? It is very likely that you have come in contact with a narcissist or someone with traits of a narcissist. In this article, I explain in detail seven warning signs that someone is narcissist.
DISCLAIMER: Only a healthcare provider, usually a psychiatrist or psychologist, can diagnose NPD.
1. GRANDIOSITY
Narcissists often exhibit grandiosity which is an exaggerated sense of one’s own identity. These individuals believe they are exceptional and unique and they manipulate people into thinking that they are as well. They are condescending, perceive others as inferior and associate with people of high status. Their thoughts are usually consumed by illusions of boundless prosperity, authority, intelligence, beauty, or perfect love, and they need on other people’s continuous affirmation and approval to keep their self-worth intact. This sense of entitlement leads them to expect special treatment. These people have underlying insecurities and a fragile self-esteem, driving the need for continuous admiration.
2. LACK OF EMPATHY
These individuals might pity or provide solutions to problems but understanding or sharing another person’s emotional experience is where they draw the line. They never show true sympathy or support, and frequently disregard the impact of their actions on others. When someone lacks empathy, they may act in a manipulative or exploitative manner, putting their own needs and wants ahead of those of others. As a result, narcissists frequently have one-sided relationships in which others feel unsupported and unappreciated. This dynamic often cultivates an environment in which others prioritize their needs and seek to gain their approval.
3. ENTITLEMENT AND EXCESSIVE NEED FOR ADMIRATION
The two main characteristics of narcissism are entitlement and an obsessive demand for praise. People feel entitled expect others to take care of their needs and wants without inquiry. Narcissists believe they should be given special attention and advantages. This frequently results in irrational demands and resentment or dissatisfaction when those expectations are not fulfilled. Furthermore, in order to maintain their sense of self-worth, narcissists are driven by an overwhelming desire for recognition and acclaim. They become agitated or angry if they feel unappreciated or underappreciated. This combination of entitlement and the need for admiration can make them difficult to be around, as they prioritize their own status and ego over the feelings and needs of others.
4. EXPLOITATION AND MANIPULATION
Narcissists deliberately take advantage of and control other people in order to achieve their own goals. They brutally use others as tools, ignoring their rights and feelings in order to serve their own interests, such as gaining position or power. Narcissists exert control over and influence over others around them by using unfair and deceitful methods to get what they want. They sometimes provide you with flashy things so you remain loyal to them.
5. ARROGANCE
Narcissism is characterized by arrogance, which takes the form of an exaggerated sense of superiority. Narcissists, who are certain of their own exceptionality, frequently minimize or disregard other people. Their arrogant actions, such as controlling talks and making condescending comments, increase increase hatred and isolation.. While covering up underlying fears, this disdainful exterior ironically makes them feel more alone since it prevents real interactions.
6. ENVY
One thing about Narcissist is that no matter how much you grow, they never want you to be better than them. They always want to keep you below them. Envy may take the form of attempts to undermine or stifle the achievements of others. It’s ironic that narcissists often project their own jealousy onto others, misinterpreting criticism as jealousy instead of owning up to their own inadequacies. Being around these people can limit your growth and stunt your progress. Manipulation is their major talent when it comes to compelling people, making them feel like they are less than they are and incapable of achieving their dreams.
7. LACK OF REMORSE
Narcissists lack regret and have little to no guilt for their destructive behavior. Their exaggerated sense of self-worth and their lack of empathy are the root causes of this. Narcissists usually avoid accepting ownership of their actions by rationalizing them, placing blame elsewhere, or downplaying any wrongdoing. This lack of regret keeps them in a loop of deceitful and manipulative conduct and makes it difficult for them to build good relationships.
Narcissist are everywhere, they could be our family members or even very close friends. Being in a close environment with these set of people on a daily basis can have an extremely negative impact on your life. It is best to try your best to keep them as far as possible and at the same time, not abandoning them completely.
